Moving On
Last Wednesday, I learned that my little embie didn’t make it and that that cycle was a bust. It’s hard but Nadia and I have decided to move on to domestic adoption.
I’ll write more about it in the coming weeks.
Thanks so much for your support. It means a lot.
Just want you to know that you have my support and good thoughts wherever your journey takes you.
1I’m so sorry. You must know that you had many, many folks here in the blogosphere pulling for you. I hope that adoption brings you the ease and joy that are so hard for amny of us IF ladies to find. I’ll be watching and hoping for you.
2I’m so sorry. I too will be sending you positive thoughts as you take this new path.
3Thinking of you.
4You have done so much. I am so sorry the little embie didn’t make it. All my best to you and Nadia right now. I will be following your journey as you move to adoption.
5hey lady, i’m really sorry that your embie didn’t make it. i’ve found a lot of joy in the adoption process thus far, and i hope you do, too. i would be happy to talk to you about it at any point. jencas20009 at gmail dot etc. xoxoxoxoxoxox to you, as you mourn this loss and move to the next stage of this process. lots of love.
6You are INCREDIBLY brave and I admire you tremendously. Please know that I’m still rooting you on!
Don’t forget to wear the socks to your adoption appointments too for good luck
7I’m so sorry Eva. I was really hoping it would be the embie that could. You have done every possible thing you could do. I’m here for you all the way and wish you luck in the adoption process.
8xoxo
(((hugs)))
9thinking of you both. xo
10I’m so sorry. Thinking of you.
11xxoo sending you love and hopes that you will find a kinder path in adoption. i know this ttc path has been brutal to both you and nadia.
12Just so sorry.
Wishing you much joy in this new direction though.
13I’m so, so sorry that the embryo didn’t make it. My thoughts are with you.
14Best of luck on this new path.
xoxo
I’m sorry. Best wishes on your new journey. ((HUGS))
15I’m so sorry. I hope your adoption journey is a quick one and you have a child in your arms very soon.
16I love you. I’m sorry. You are going to be an awe-inspiring mom, though. I get goose-bumps just thinking about it. Give yourself and N and hug from us.
17I’m so sorry. I can only imagine how hard this must be for you and N. Y and I are thinking of you and hoping the domestic adoption process goes smoothly for you.
18I am so sorry. I was so hoping you would get to have one of those urban-legend kind of stories. I hope that you can get really excited about adoption and that your wait is short. I am currently in the middle of looking at adoption also and am finding a new level of hope in that.
19I’m so very sorry.
Best wishes on this next twist in your path.
20I am very sorry. I have kept my fingers crossed for you.
) and in our family this sentence was our mantra”family is a matter of the heart, not of the blood”. My mantra is-always- “Mama/Ma /mother is for me the woman who stayed on my bedside when i was ill, who dryed my tears when I was crying and who shared my joy when I was happy” (no offense against all the lovely biological mothers out there). I do not know if any of my words helps you in your current situation, but I really hope so. I wish you all the best on your way. Your child will surely find you as I did with my parents ages ago….
21Allow me to de-lurk. I am following your blog since half a year and I admire it, admire your strenght and courage.
I am an adopted child (now grown a…woman
I am so sorry. This journey is so, so difficult. I am hoping that the adoption journey turns out to be a breeze compared to the TTC journey for you. Thinking of you.
Mo
22You are very brave!
23I just found your blog. I too know what its like to have your cycle cancelled because the little embie didnt make it! We were right around the same time last cycle. Sorry that it didnt work out, but good luck with your new journey and learning lots about domestic adoption!!
Jess
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