11th September 2008

Let’s Keep Things Interesting

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The last couple of days have been a world wind with mostly good news, but there is a dash of bad news, just to keep my life interesting.
Today I went to  Dr. Feelgood for my requisite wanding and it turns out that I have 7 mature follicles and that he is hoping to retrieve 5 eggs. Yippee! Thanks to Mulberry and all of you for routing for more than 3 puppies. I feel good about it all for the moment, but we shall see, that could change on a dime. 
 
Nadia and I will pull the trigger tonight at 10PM with a lovely shot in the arse. And then Saturday morning we will do the dirty deed.
 
I broke the news to  my supervisor today but I have to admit that I it wasn’t as hard as I thought it would be. Since my retrieval is on Saturday I did not have to tell my supervisor about the full extent of my medical treatments. Because the retrieval is over the weekend, I am only taking off 2 days from work as opposed to 1 day for retrieval and then 2 days for transfer approximately 3 to 5 days later.
What I told her was is that I am going to have a ‘medical procedure’ next week but I am not exactly sure when because the doctor was trying  to fit my into his schedule (not a complete fib) and that I would let her know when I would be out as soon as I  could. She seemed genuinely concerned for my welfare. I assured her that I was going to be fine.  She gave me a hug and told me  not to worry about it. In fact, she told me that I should feel free to take three days if I needed to.
 
All of this is good news.
 
The bad news is that at the 11th hour I experienced a horrible drama with my health care provider and I feel completely blind-sided. I am so upset about it, but I am trying to stay positive and get some rest, so I won’t write more now, but I will detail the whole gory narrative when I have more energy.
 
Right now, I am going to take a bath and meditate on five eggs.
 
Thanks for your warm wishes. It’s helping.
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  1. 1 On September 11th, 2008, Anne said:

    5 eggs - that really is great! Oh, I’m so happy for you guys!

    I hope this health care provider scare turns out to be not a big deal so that you can focus all of your energy on those eggs and the transfer!

    Good luck with the booty-shot!

  2. 2 On September 11th, 2008, Lo said:

    5 eggs!! Awesome!

  3. 3 On September 11th, 2008, mulberry said:

    go eggies go! i knew there were more to be had in there ;) hope you enjoyed the warm bath. sorry to hear that the evil insurance people (health care NON-providers) are after you… that can really suck. hope your heiny doesn’t hurt too much. i think we are about a little less than a week behind you… dakota will be getting that heiny shot in a few days.

  4. 4 On September 12th, 2008, giggleblue said:

    congrats on the eggs! i’m sure the retrieval will go just perfectly! fingers crossed!

  5. 5 On September 12th, 2008, Co said:

    Five eggs. Woo hoo!

    Sorry for the drama. Wouldn’t it be nice if SOMETHING could be uncomplicated for a change?

  6. 6 On September 12th, 2008, malea said:

    5 is a great number to start with.Here’s to a smooth and pleasant dirty deed.Teehee!

  7. 7 On September 12th, 2008, Melody said:

    I like the way you told your boss– clean. No mention of fertility treatment so that she doesn’t start worrying about maternity leave. I think it’s better. And bonus that she was so understanding.

    Fingers firmly crossed for you.

  8. 8 On September 12th, 2008, Gia said:

    Ommmmm Ommmmmm Ommmmmmm

  9. 9 On September 12th, 2008, Sarah said:

    drama is not helpful at a tiem like this–don’t they know that?
    I’m putting all sorts of postiive attention on your eggies.
    Sarah

  10. 10 On September 12th, 2008, S said:

    good luck with the ER tomorrow!!

  11. 11 On September 13th, 2008, sara said:

    YEA for five eggs. I am thinking of you today and sending you lots of good vibes!!!

  12. 12 On September 13th, 2008, MommaLove said:

    Good luck! I am day 9 today with 3 follies over 15mm and 4 borderline at 13.5mm. I’m hoping to get at least 5 too.

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